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In addition, the Vienna Circle published a number of book series: In other words, we have met the Stone Age, and it is us. Garland Publishing, , pp. Feel free to use anything I write on here or my thread as a testimony While the term has several meanings, the most frequent usage refers to two people exploring whether they are romantically or sexually compatible by participating in dates with the other.

1. Deal with loneliness before aloneness.

Mathematics, which at a first sight seems an example of necessarily valid synthetic knowledge derived from pure reason alone, has instead a tautological character, that is its statements are analytical statements , thus very different from Kantian synthetic statements. If you agree or don't agree with someone's opinion is completely irrelevant. Fascinating to see the reactions of your readers! But the annexation of Austria to Nazi Germany in meant the definite end of the activities of the Vienna Circle in Austria. I find the majority of time, it's because of a fear of intimacy," said relationship therapist Laura Berman.

Life is better abroad. So, I worked hard for many years to improve myself So then I did some traveling to Hungary, the Czech Republic, and the Philippines, and beautiful young women couldn't keep their hands off of me! Dating is like real estate- the 3 most important factors are location, location, location! Before I moved abroad my social life in the US was a 2 out of 10 at best. When I moved abroad all that changed dramatically, and I made true friends and dated gorgeous women. American women are more stuck up than foreign women and the proof was what I witnessed?

I actually went to most countries abroad and what Winston said was SO true. I now applaud for his effort in helping dateless man like me in America face hope again.

Thank you Winston Wu. He's someone who's actually gonna show you proof. All these other websites you go to, they really don't show you anything. His ebook has changed my view of American culture degrees.

I would also like to let you know that I am getting married in MAY Keep up the good work Winston you do inspire people. I am reading your revised, updated book as of August , and I must say that so far it's are real eye-opener You are a brilliant orator and you are very good at articulating in succinct detail the plight of men today. Keep up the good work. I have never in my life seen an Asian guy with such a brilliant, philosphical mind.

There have been times when I thought I was crazy thinking the way I was thinking, especially as it pertains to America and its awful, non-inclusive culture. However, after reading Winston's words, I totally feel relieved and vindicated, knowing full and well it's society that is crazy, not me!

I have a new internet hobby now: I'm moving to St Petersburg in the new year and as I was researching I came across Happier Abroad, and I couldn't agree more with the overall message Winston is absolutely right from my experiences. I had to go somewhere and then come back to see the light, but I definitely see it.

Wu was right about the Polish girls and them being really friendly and giggling and blushing. Wu was right about being able to go over to the girls' tables and immediately go and sit with them. Wu was right about the society being more open in Poland than in America. Wu is trying to help other people's lives. And he helped my life because I stumbled upon his website and read his stuff and I was inspired in part by his website to try Poland.

I went to Russia and married a beautiful Russian lady in We have been married almost 10 years now and have a 6 year old daughter together. Russian women have a quality that is difficult to understand unless you have been there.

It is a completely different experience than the US. Fascinating to see the reactions of your readers! As one pointed out, you really are a leader.

Unusually truthful and courageous. You walk the talk so to speak and very few of these other men on these Blogging sites can ever claim this not even the agency owners whom many are scamming many men. Thats more then can be said for most. I'm so excited and so happy now Winston. Keep up the good work my friend. Thanks for the many hours of work it took to put together. Also I curse you for the many hours I'll spend reading it all.

Thanks for your enlightening articles. I love how he persevered and finally got the girl of his dreams. I'm currently reading it right now and it is great!!! It took me a while to realize that there was a chasm of difference between the media picture of America and real life, but when the truth hit home, I felt very disappointed and empty. I even had a lapse of self-condemnation as I thought the problem was in me. I have gotten over it now and can see clearly. Your writing puts all the pieces of the puzzle together very well.

I have lived in the US for 13 years now, and I can't but agree with every single word you wrote??? Congratulations again on a job well done!!!!! I only wish I could be so eloquent - its as if you have been reading my thoughts. I came here for over 20 years ago searching for the stars with my 2 kids. It's making me more self-aware in areas that I may have been slipping into "typical American mode" in, and is opening my mind even more. I'm so impressed to find someone who clearly, boldly, and honestly declared the sickening state of social life in America and the deep ills that affect nearly all aspects of social interaction here, not just in relationships with women, but also the overwhelming feeling of disconnection and superficiality that pervades nearly all types of social interaction here I thought I was the only one who thought this way about American social climate.

Read his long story and the photos including the albums and you will be amazed??? Most of us, even if we did find the holy grail would either be too selfish or more likely shy and embarassed to ever come out publicly the way you have. Your generosity of spirit is truly amazing. Here I am with clinical depression feeling like I'm wasting my year after college and its honestly giving me hope browsing your photo collages and seeing that happiness is definitely possible, no matter who you are.

I love the ebooks you have online and I really enjoy hearing about your success with white women abroad. I have a research paper on "my hero" and I choose to do my report on you and your success.

Most people settle for what life puts right in front of them. I give you that. Most guys brag and BS and deny their faults. Like Dwight our mutual friend if you say something happened, it happened. And like him, you don't just talk about it, you DO IT. You are my hero! You have spoken truths that many men do not understand.

You have broken ground that many men have not You are an inspiration! And that's why I like Wu so much. There are so many people who turn into depressed potatoes in the USA. They just sit there and get more and more depressed.

And if you don't fit in, they just label you a "loser". Wu didn't just sit down and take that. Wu rebelled against that. The last guy I talked with posted that message about Spain and the women he met. He too is confirming what Wu has said. I think people "need" to read what you've written" - Joan, USA. They simply follow the pack. You are an exception.

Main thing is you don't give a shit what other people especially white say about you - highly unusual, unfortunately, for any race of people, Chinese especially. So your stuff is absolutely awesome. I wish I had more of your magic. I consider myself much more attractive than you, but you seem to do better with the ladies. What is your secret? This makes me wonder how you did it, especially the fact that you're an oriental.

I know some guys who have a lot more than you, but they can't do anywhere near what you did in terms of girls of course. All the stuff you went through. Most people would have given up. I've spent hours this evening reading your site and comments on here before joining, and you've really put your finger on so many of the dysfunctions in the US.

I knew many of them, and even sensed them as a kid growing up I'm now 40 and married. I can attest to the incredible femininity and beauty of the women overseas, particularly Eastern Europe, where I spent many years. I actually met my Italian wife in St. But I can attest Winston In 7 days I have never been so happy with a woman in my entire life? Because she is night and day unlike the shit here Winston, I cannot recomend your site enough.

The ebook was great. I even owe you a thank you, I'd say. What I read on there helped me to decide: I'm 10, times happier because I did. Thank you for your wisdom.

Feel free to use anything I write on here or my thread as a testimony I was about to give up on women entirely and just be a confirmed bachelor like one of my heroes CS Lewis. God, there are women of quality out there. I HAVE one now. Go abroad, gentlemen, you will indeed be happier I know I am. I really enjoyed reading your ebook. For years and years I would beat myself up inside over the fact that trying to talk to women was a total nightmare It can be very hard to communicate with women out in there public places.

And if you are not part of the right clique or circle of friends you are in a bad way. Even if your a reasonably attractive and highly intelligent male.

After reading your ebook. It gave me a very detailed account of why things are the way they are. If things at the time is not going right connecting with women it's not my fault.

It's not that I'm doing anything incorrect or I don't have a certain look. It totally goes against the social mores in US society even in places where it's suppose to be appropriate to flirt with women I recommend your website and YouTube videos to everybody Your personal accounts of women and people in general being more approachable, friendly, and caring in other parts of the world serve as hope to those of us living in the frigid, hostile U.

My own experiences with friendly, outgoing foreign students in college were refreshing and led me to believe that America truly is a social hell; this is confirmed seemingly every time I go out in public. The information you provide on HappierAbroad. Most people don't even get out of their own bedroom door, for you to actually go out and do it, and then share with everyone else what you learned earns you a ton of respect. I can see why Americanized men feel surreal when meeting women like you have shown us It's pretty sad when comparing feminine ladies instead of these good for nothing spoiled children Aw's Good for you Winston, live it up.

I will need to browse through you information and start planning me a nice bachelor trip! Your analysis of the social scene in the U. This country is social hell Thank you, Winston, for providing reassurance to those of us who haven't traveled as extensively as you. Happierabroad, nomarriage, and the-niceguy gave me hope! I wish I was in your shoes. American men are good and decent and deserve better than the feminist nightmare there being offered in their own country. Pretty much everything stated on this website is true, it is like being on a different planet.

Now I see how much damage the US matrix has done - 20 years of baggage and issues, mistrust and rejection are ingrained into my view on reality. I assume rejection before I even talk to a woman, which ruins the potential for doing anything with her at all. In the states, a man is openly described as pathetic if he approaches a woman, asks for her number, etc.

I can see that going outside of the US matrix behavior pattern produces unimaginable results here that would be impossible in the US It could take many years to begin reprogramming myself.

Ive always had trouble expressing to my family and friends exactly the right words as to why I just cant meet woman in the US, at least not the kind I want. It was by far the most comprehensive and cumulative work I've ever encountered on the subject. Big thanks to you for that, for devoting your life to this cancerous world's problem.

At first I thought that emphasis on dating is a bit shallow and might repel some thinking, deep people, but the more I looked at it, I came to think that it might just do the opposite I am a 26 yr old White South African woman married to an American man. I have been in USA for 4 years. Thank you Winston, I am glad that you have discovered how much better foreign women are, and I wish you all the happiness in the world. View all praises and testimonials.

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Welcome to Happier Abroad. A few questions for you: If so, then you've come to the right place! I have Good News for you: In I made the greatest discovery of my life, which was that: It's very simple yet very taboo, because we are taught by western culture to blame ourselves for all problems. Therefore, I have a great message and life changing secret to share with YOU: If you go abroad to one of the many authentic saner foreign cultures, you will have a better and healthier life in many major areas, such as: A better social life, dating life, mental health, physical health and food, lower cost of living and more freedom!

That's at least 6 major categories of life right there that will be greatly improved by leaving America! This is one of the Biggest Secrets and the greatest self-help secret that America and it's psychologists don't want you to know! Let's elaborate on the 6 major ways your life will be better by getting out of America.

Better Social Life Abroad: America has one of the worst social scenes and social cultures. There is no social or human connection with others.

The environment is too socially disconnected, segregated, isolating, paranoid and fake. It's very hard to make any normal friends. The social vibe feels very negative. Everyone wants to be left alone in their own bubble. People don't like to meet people or connect with others. Americans act too fake, arrogant, narcissistic and toxic, making it hard to get along with them. Conversations are usually business-related only, especially with strangers.

Thus America is probably the loneliest country in the world. In contrast, in most overseas countries, there is more natural social connection. People are more genuine, real and down-to-earth. So it is far easier to connect with others and make real friends. Foreign social atmospheres are more inclusive, and social life flows more smoothly and naturally.

Happiness is shared with others, not kept to oneself. Friendships are more true and meaningful. Note that America was not always like this though. Better Dating Life Abroad: America has the worst dating scene for most men. The women and girls are too spoiled and given too much power, making them highly fake, arrogant, narcissistic, picky, toxic, unfriendly and unapproachable with the worst attitude.

Thus they are the hardest females to connect with, and the furthest thing from authenticity that you can get. Also, they are way too difficult and entitled. Their standards are way too high for most men for they seek the top 10 or 15 percent of men. Since they are too independent and don't need men, they either want the best men or nothing at all. This makes America the worst dating scene for men, totally nightmarish, hostile and lopsided.

As a result, there are more single males without dating choices in America than in any other country. In contrast, in most foreign countries, most women are sweet, feminine, down-to-earth, genuine, friendly and approachable, like real women were meant to be. Thus it is far easier to connect with them and get dates or find girlfriends or wives. Foreign women have a more pro-male attitude compared to the anti-male attitude in the West.

Also, flirtation in America is seen as creepy and taboo by women, whereas in many friendlier foreign cultures, flirtation creates energy and excitement and women find it flattering. Moreover, foreign women cherish their God-given femininity whereas American women abhor femininity and see it as oppressive.

There are many overseas cultures where meeting and dating quality single women comes naturally, like breathing! But this is not publicized in any positive light in America, due to its taboo and politically incorrect nature. So the point is, you don't have to remain lonely and put up with a loveless life! Better Mental Health Abroad: According to the World Health Organization, if you live in America you have almost a 50 percent chance of developing a mental illness!

Thus the US is the most mentally ill country in the world. No doubt about it. America also has the biggest mental health industry and the highest rate of anti-depressant use in the world as well. A major reason for this is that American culture is very fake and toxic, so in order to fit in you have to become fake and toxic yourself. Otherwise, if you are genuine and down-to-earth, you will be alienated and out-of-place. Even after developing the friendships you desire, you may still feel lonely.

This way you can be free to build friendships with those who complement you rather than with those who you use to fill a void they can never really fill. We all have past experiences with friends that shape the way we view our current friendships. If you had a difficult time making and keeping friends during your teenage years, you may be more guarded about making friends as an adult.

On the other hand, if you have good memories of friends, your friendship narrative might read: Our friendship narrative tends to locks us into a pattern of predictable behaviors that support the narrative. Negative friendship narratives often lead to, predictably, poor relationships. The quantity and quality of your friendships are determined by what you tell yourself about the kind of friends you can have or can be to others.

Try to gain a renewed perspective and create a new narrative that is more helpful and hopeful. As adults, it can be challenging to reach out to form connections with people, especially if they are already immersed in their friend groups. Instead, consider that those who are receptive will probably be better friends for you anyway.

As children this can be a hard concept to learn. As we grow, our concept of friendship becomes less rigid, yet we may find ourselves learning all over again as we attempt to negotiate complicated peer relationships as teenagers and young adults.

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You may well have shared interests—if, for example, you met in class at college. Parents in said cultures believe in arranged marriage, or at least make sure that their children get married at a certain age.

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OK, maybe it is you—at work, say. All the stuff you went through. Information about human sexuality grew, and with it an acceptance of all types of sexual orientations is becoming more common.

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